Using a seperate sheet of paper, record either a yes or no response to the following 16 questions...
Part one…
- Can you say what you like about your partner?
What you admire?
- Does he/she actually listen to you?
- Are you and your partner friends? Best friends?
- Can he/she talk about his/her feelings?
- Does your partner respect your ideas and opinions?
- Does he/she have good friends?
- Does he/she have his/her own interests separate from you?
- Do you act your normal self around your partner?
Part two…
- Does your partner expect to be told your whereabouts when you are not together?
- Does he/she ridicule you or put you down in public?
- Does your partner believe that there are situations where it is okay for a woman
to hit a man or for a woman to hit a man?
- Are you ever afraid of your partner?
- Is your partner ever jealous of your friends?
- Does your partner think you are cheating on him/her when you talk or dance with
the opposite gender?
- Do you act a certain way to please your partner?
- Do you feel that you have to be with your partner constantly?
Part
One: Answering ‘yes’ to the first 8 questions suggests that you are
in a good healthy relationship and answering ‘no’ to those questions suggests an unhealthy relationship between
you and your partner.
Part
Two: Answering ‘no’ to these 8 questions suggests that you are in
a good healthy relationship and answering ‘yes’ to those questions suggests an unhealthy relationship between
you and your partner.