Using a seperate sheet of paper, record either a yes or no response to the following 16 questions...

Part one…

1. Can you say what you like about your partner?  What you admire?

2. Does he/she actually listen to you?

3. Are you and your partner friends? Best friends?

4. Can he/she talk about his/her feelings?

5. Does your partner respect your ideas and opinions?

6. Does he/she have good friends?

7. Does he/she have his/her own interests separate from you?

8. Do you act your normal self around your partner?

Part two…

1. Does your partner expect to be told your whereabouts when you are not together?

2. Does he/she ridicule you or put you down in public?

3. Does your partner believe that there are situations where it is okay for a woman to hit a man or for a woman to hit a man?

4. Are you ever afraid of your partner?

5. Is your partner ever jealous of your friends?

6. Does your partner think you are cheating on him/her when you talk or dance with the opposite gender?

7. Do you act a certain way to please your partner?

8. Do you feel that you have to be with your partner constantly?

Part One:  Answering ‘yes’ to the first 8 questions suggests that you are in a good healthy relationship and answering ‘no’ to those questions suggests an unhealthy relationship between you and your partner.

Part Two:  Answering ‘no’ to these 8 questions suggests that you are in a good healthy relationship and answering ‘yes’ to those questions suggests an unhealthy relationship between you and your partner.