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                           Respect:  the awareness of each other's boundaries and the need
                           for personal space and vulnerabilities.   
                           Equality: treating each other as equal human beings   
                           Honesty:  Mutual trust, openness, and understanding are the
                           key contributors to a healthy honest relationship    
                           Trust: the ability to confide in each other openly, knowing that their confidences will be respected.   
                           Security:  strong enough to absorb conflict and anger, each knowing
                           they can express their feelings honestly   
                           Communication:  the ability to speak about what they feel, need or
                           desire openly together without much hesitation   
                           Laughter:  humour keeps everything in perspective   
                           Support:  continually offer each other encouragement, comfort
                           and acceptance.   
                           Physical Affection:  sexual desire may fluctuate through a long-term relationship;
                           a healthy one will retain some physical connection.   
                           Togetherness:  able to create a sense of both intimacy and autonomy
                           and enjoying each other interests
 
                            
                              
                                 
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